My Review

I had the privilege of editing and playing a small role in bringing this book to readers. Over a year ago, Ricardo reached out to me with a rough draft of a manuscript he had written while serving his sentence. From our very first Zoom meeting, his dedication to sharing his story for the benefit of others was clear. His respect, perseverance, and genuine desire to grow and make a difference stood out in every conversation—and those same qualities shine through on every page of this book.

No one should have to endure what Ricardo did. Yes, he made mistakes—many, over many years—but he has paid for them, learned from them, and emerged with a powerful message. More than just a personal account, this book serves as a guide for parents, mentors, and anyone who wants to help young people stay on the right path. Ricardo’s story is both a cautionary tale and a call to action, urging readers to engage, support, and guide the next generation toward success.

Book Summary

In this memoir, Ricardo London offers a candid account of his life. Fueled by pain, fear, and anger caused by his father’s verbal and physical abuse, Ricardo lashed out at the world, grappling with emotions and directing his frustration at authority figures. This eventually turned bad behaviors into a life-long journey of criminal activities.

With unflinching honesty, Ricardo sheds light on how he was lost in a world of criminality, prison gang involvement and drug addiction. Spanning years of incarceration, including a staggering 43-year term, his story exposes the harsh realities of life behind bars.

But out of the darkness, there emerged a greater purpose. MY MISTAKES, YOUR LESSONS is a heartfelt plea to people who are in position to make a difference, to allow them to help give the proper care and love so children don’t get lost to the world of criminality. It is also a stark reminder of the power of parental and adult guidance, and their crucial role in steering youth in a positive direction.